Please Don't Let Me Be Misunderstood

"I'm just a soul whose intentions are good, 

Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood."

-- Horace Ott

The Animals

Quote: Goethe/Charlotte von Stein

"Only he who knows yearning knows what I suffer! 

Alone and cut off from all joy, 

I look to the firmament in yonder direction. 

Ah, [she] who loves and knows me is far away..."

--- Goethe, 1785

to Charlotte von Stein

(note: the original was "he" and not "she")

Quote: Samuel Johnson

"If I had no duties, and no references to futurity,

I would spend my life driving briskly in a post-chaise with a pretty woman.

But she should be one who could understand me, and would add something to the conversation."

-- Samuel Johnson, A Biography, John Wain, p. 293

For the Love of Math

A friend of mine is fortunate enough to have hundreds of letters that represent the correspondence between her parents, I believe, during World War II. I have always loved journals, diaries, collections of letters, and so seeing those letters, all still in their envelopes intrigued me.

Today I was eager to have a Chik-Fil-A lunch, having not been there for about a year (has it been that long?). But I always need something to read when I go somewhere to eat by myself, and having forgotten to bring a book along with me, I walked to Half-Price Bookstores about a half-mile away before going in for lunch.

Because I am teaching math at middle school and high school, I was interested in something from the math section. Wow! I found a really, really good book.  Here's the review I posted at Amazon and also at my literature blog:

I  have said this many, many times: the best writers are the English, the Irish and the Scots, not necessarily in that order.

I have just come across another gem. Mathematics with Love: The Courtship Correspondence of Barnes Wallis, Inventor of the Bouncing Bomb is the story and almost complete correspondence between Barnes Wallace and the love of his life, Molly Bloxam. It was "written" by one of their children, Mary Stopes-Roe, who was trained as a historian and psychologist. She worked for many years at the University of Birmingham where she studied parent-child interactions with families of Asian and British ethnic origin. While archiving her family's papers, she came across the courtship correspondence of her parents.

It is an incredible story and absolutely delightful.

At 17, Molly was on her way to university in London to study science and was struggling with math and physics. Her suitor was a 35-year-old shy man from England who had accepted a teaching job in Switzerland. From there, through their daily correspondence, he taught her math.

It is delightful to read the English phrases, to read the descriptions of university and Switzerland, to experience vicariously what was happening to two people between the end of World War I and leading up to World War II.

Most interesting is to see their feelings change for each other through the letters over time. At the outset he had fallen in love with her but was too shy to even say good-bye (he stood her up and left England without following through on his promise to say good-bye in person). For whatever reason, based on only one or two personal visits with him when the families visited, she took up correspondence with him. Perhaps he was only a sounding board for her in the beginning. But from there it developed into a full-fledged love affair.

So, I've started reading it. As one who loves math, journals, diaries, stories of love affairs, this is a real, real gem.

I see this book is available through Amazon resellers for $48. I got my redundant (and absolutely perfect condition with dust jacket) for $15.98, at the local Half-Price Bookstore in San Antonio.

Aren't these just the most English of names: Molly Bloxam and Barnes Wallis? I just love it. And I love the book. It's an incredible find. How I would love to share it with someone.

I'll Get Over You

Life is full of twists and turns; straight and narrow was not an option.


I'll Get Over You, Crystal Gayle

This one gets pulled by YouTub.com periodically:


I'll Get Over You, Crystal Gayle

Don't Forget To Remember Me

This particular video is so cheesy, I almost hate to post it, and maybe I will replace it sometime down the road, but for now, here it is.



Don't Forget to Remember Me, The Bee Gees

And I Think Of You

I don't care for parts of this video, and the pianist is not Tanita Tikaram but this video seems to fit here, at this moment.

I do not remember how I stumbled upon Tanita Tikaram. Most likely I saw a video of hers on MTV or VH1 many years ago. She had four or five songs I absolutely loved and then she sort of disappeared. On YouTube Fugue you can see the other Tanita Tikaram videos that I enjoy. "Twist In My Sobriety," "Cathedral Song," and "Good Tradition" are my favorite Tanita songs.

It turns out "And I Think of You" is an "old" Italian song. Frank Sinatra, of course, has sung it. But between Frank Sinatra and Tanita Tikaram there is no comparison. This song was written for Tanita Tikaram.



And I Think of You, Tanita Tikaram

... and I think of you, when I see a meteor on a starry, starry night. But I think of you during the most mundane of activities, like washing dishes.