Friday, June 27, 2025

The Lunar Men -- June 27, 2025

F Scott Fitzgerald taught us that "we can never go back."

But that makes it no easier.

I've nearly finished reading The Lunar Men. Notes here. The members of the Lunar Club, of which I've been reading for the past several days, are now coming to their own end. The author is introducing us to their growing / grown children. Some have already died. I can see the end coming. It makes me very sad, and every page with descriptions of England at the time, remind me of the time I spent at Menwith Hill and Pateley Bridge with a most wonderful woman.

Some outings with Pat were most incredible, such as the day-long hike to Whitby and back. I wish we had done more of those excursions. We did excursions every weekend, but somehow they don't bring back memories like Whitby. Haworth, of course, is an exception, such fond memories but we were a threesome that day and I needed / wanted to be with Pat alone.  Or alone with Pat.

We can never go back, but wow, the memories will never go away. 

Note: this is the second time I've read this book. There are some chapters I need to read yet again. But I'm getting a better and better feeling with regard to the dozen or so men of the Lunar Society. 

When I go through this again, I need to develop some way to keep track of the places where they lived, and the locations in relationship to each other, particularly Erasmus Darwin's home, Lichfield.

Sunday, June 22, 2025

June 22, 2025

One of my favorite "things" when I was in Yorkshire: breakfast with Pat -- English ham, eggs, bacon, and three newspapers: The Daily [London] Telegraph, The [London] Guardian, and, The [London] Times. 

I would run down -- literally run down --  to the village store, Sunday mornings, to buy fresh eggs, bacon and ham, and three newspapers, as noted above.

We then enjoyed a wonderful breakfast that I cooked (LOL) and then spending a couple hours reading the London newspapers! 

After last night's USAF B-2 bombing of Iranian nuclear facilities, I wish I was back in Yorkshire reading those newspapers along with Pat.

Link here.

I really miss you, Pat, more than you will ever know.

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Movies

Watching syrupy, treacly movies tonight. They bring back wonderful memories.

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Yesterday

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Tuesday, June 10, 2025

Not A Day Goes By That I Don't Think Of You And About You -- June 10, 2025

I'm joined at the hip with my 10-year-old granddaughter, as I was when her two older sisters were her age. The oldest has just graduated from college and the middle one has just started college. The third of three granddaughters lives with her mom and dad in the same apartment complex in which we live.

I wouldn't have it any other way.

But that doesn't mean I don't think of you often -- every day, in fact. 

I have one last "thing" in life to accomplish. To see the ten-year-old granddaughter get her driver's license. Then my work on earth, as it were, or my purpose for living, is done.

That doesn't mean I love my two grandsons, twins, in Portland, OR, any less. It simply means they don't need me for anything. They have a mom that does not work outside the home and her two sons are her two priorities in life. 

Both of Sophia's parents have incredibly busy lives / jobs outside of their home and thus Sophia would often be stranded if her grandparents were not here to take her to all her activities and here all her stories. But by 8th grade, two or three years from now, that will be over. All she will need from us is a chauffeur. 

And when she gets her driver's license, she won't need a chauffeur.