Thursday, August 25, 2011

Poetry -- I"ll Talk To Your Eyes That I Love So Much...

If I were teaching poetry for high school students, I would choose "If You Go Away" -- see earlier posting.

One needs to listen to it several times; the couplets, the metaphors are awesome ... I posted some of the couplets on the earlier post ... but I am listening to the song again tonight and I am blown away by it ... how much joy to listen to it with someone special by my side ...

... but if you go, I will understand,
but leave me just enough love to hold in my hand...

... but if you stay, I will make you a night, like no night has been or will be again,
I will sail on your smile, I will ride on your touch, I'll talk to your eyes,
that I love so much...

but if you go, I'll cry, though the "good" is gone from the word "good-bye" ...

Wow, listen to it a dozen times and each time I will guarantee you will hear something new ...

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Back to Black -- The Midnight Walks -- Pateley Bridge, Yorkshire, England

Some nights I literally run out of steam. This is one of those nights. A melancholy midnight walk around Pateley Bridge is in order.



Back to Black, Amy Winehouse


Wow, this is THE walk. I challenge anyone to take this walk on a moonless night at midnight.

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

If You Go Away ...

.... on a summer day,

Then you might as well take the sun away.
(You might as well take away)
All the birds that flew in the summer sky
When our love was new and our hearts were high
When the day was young and the night was long
and the moon stood still ...

But if you stay, I'll make you a day, like no day has been...

But if you stay, I'll make you a night, like no night has been ...
I'll talk to your eyes that I loved so much.

But if you go away,
Leave me just enough love to hold in my hand

If You Go Away, Shirley Bassey

Without question, the couplets were every bit as good as anything Shakespeare ever wrote.

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You have no idea how the couplet ...
When the day was young and the night was long
and the moon stood still ...
... hit me. I remember how dark it got by 4:00 p.m. and how late we walked into the night. And how the stars were so bright, and how, yes, the moon stood still. Every night that was to be the last night, I stayed awake all night, looking at the clock. Time, they say, moves so much more slowly if you watch the clock. Those last nights, even when I watched the clock, did not move any slower. Dawn came too soon. I would not do anything to have those young days and long nights back, but I would do a lot ...

Sunday, August 14, 2011

Stand By Your Man

I'm alone tonight, watching yet another repeat of a DVD aired by the public broadcasting network for their quarterly fundraiser. It's a DVD of "country legends," and I think I'm watching it for the third time in the past 72 hours. I guess I don't really watch it, but it's on in the background, and when something comes on that interests me, I will go over and watch it.

One has to admit that it really is something to see singers like Tammy Wynette, George Jones, Johnny Cash, Loretta Lynn perform. They were really something. They rose to the top the hard way: lots of singing for local venues, and then somehow getting discovered. "American Idol," on the other hand, seems too contrived, manufactured.

Be that as it may, it started off with Tammy Wynette and her classic, and one of my favorites. I hope you can enjoy it.

Stand By Your Man, Tammy Wynette


Friday, August 12, 2011

Save the Last Dance for Me

I don't quite remember how I got to this video -- what led me here -- but when I saw Emmy Lou dancing a bit near the middle, I thought of you. 


Save The Last Dance For Me, Emmy Lou Harris


The following doesn't belong here; it should go to one of my other blogs, but oh, we would have fun watching it together:


Save The Last Dance For Me, Carole Laure


Carole Laure is French-Canadian; her birthday is almost the same as ours, August 4, 1951.

Tend to leave my sleeping bag rolled up and stashed behind your couch ...

It's knowing that your door is always open
And your path is free to walk
That makes me tend to leave my sleeping bag
Rolled up and stashed behind your couch
And it's knowing I'm not shackled
By forgotten words and bonds
And the ink stains that have dried upon some line
That keeps you in the backroads
By the rivers of my mem'ry
That keeps you ever gentle on my mind


Gentle on My Mind, Glen Campbell


The writer says "your're" gentle on my mind. You're not. My mind is completely wracked. I am shackled, not by your words or bonds, but by memories of your smile and your willingness to listen.

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Obituary -- Craig Oksol -- Williston, North Dakota, USA

Link here.

In case the link is broken:

Funeral services for Craig B. Oksol, 55, a longtime Williston insurance agent and current president of Manger Insurance, will be at 10:30 a.m. on Friday, Aug. 12, 2011, at First Lutheran Church, Williston. The Rev. Chris Swarthout, of New Hope Wesleyan Church and the Rev. Ben Loven, of First Lutheran Church will officiate and interment will be at Riverview Cemetery.

Craig Byron Oksol was born to Carl H. and Ruth (Flessner) Oksol in Williston on Sept. 28, 1955. He was raised in Williston in a family with five siblings and was raised at First Lutheran Church. He attended Wilkinson Elementary and graduated from Williston High School in 1973. Craig continued his education first locally at UND-Williston for two years of general studies and then he continued his education at the University of North Dakota in Grand Forks where he earned his B.S. degree in business.

After his formal education, Craig returned to Williston, where he stepped into the business of his father, Carl H. Oksol at Manger Insurance; here he found his niche in serving the insurance needs of many in northwest North Dakota and northeast Montana. His career would span 34 years at Manger Insurance. Craig and his sister, Karla Osborn, purchased the stock of the closely held family business in 1999 and Craig took on the role of president. This vocation allowed him to serve others and during the ebb and flow of his time at Manger, many people in Williston and the surrounding communities were thankful for years of insurance coverage and the peace of mind he brought to business owners. Craig was well respected in the community and in the insurance arena.

Craig believed in Williston and this greater area and he helped in the community’s growth by serving on many area boards. He served faithfully and with a calming presence. Some of the benefactors of Craig’s time were the Mercy Hospital Board and Williston State College Foundation Board. He was an active member of the Local Rotary Club, a past Rotary Club president, and he truly lived by their motto: Service above Self. Craig is also a past Toastmaster and gave back to his vocation of insurance by serving in many capacities with the local and state insurance associations.

After being reintroduced at their 30th high school class reunion, Craig was united in marriage to Kathryn Larson of Williston on Feb. 4, 2006. To this union, two daughters entered his life, Vanessa and Victoria whom Craig adopted. Craig cherished life and his family and friends every opportunity that he could. He especially loved taking drives in the country where the wide open prairies always unveiled something new. Craig enjoyed hunting, riding his motorcycle, horseback riding, singing (especially with the Dublin Boys), reading a good book, canoeing or hiking the North Unit of the Theodore Roosevelt National Park. Craig also loved spending time with his close-knit Bible study group from New Hope Wesleyan Church and traveling to areas of interest such as Jamaica, Portugal, China and his favorite place to visit, New York City. Had Craig survived, his new mission in life was to spread the Gospel of salvation through his Savior Jesus Christ.

Craig leaves to mourn his early departure his wife, Kathryn, and daughters, Vanessa (Matthew) Massey and Victoria Bastian, all of Williston; his father, Carl H. Oksol and mother, Ruth Oksol; brother, Bruce (May) Oksol, San Antonio, Texas and their children, Kiri (Josh) Nevin and Laura Oksol; sister, Yvonne (Terry) Braun, West Fargo and their children, Eric (Alicia) Braun and Jennifer (Greg) Poziembo; sister, Karla (Bob) Osborn, Williston and their son, Rob (Toby) Osborn; sister, Kathy Oksol, Tucson, Ariz., and her children, Anna and Sophie Ochoa-Lions and sister, Jan (Dave) Greenwald, Portland, Ore., and their boys, Cameron and Connor; his mother-in-law, Gwen Larson; his sisters-in-law, Marilynn Baker, Judy Nevell and Janet Melugin and several great-nieces and nephews.

Craig peacefully passed away on Thursday, Aug. 4, 2011, at St. Mary’s Hospital in Rochester, Minn., where he received the best possible care and had the loving support of his wife and family at his side. He was able to live long enough to again wish his bride of almost six years a happy birthday!

Craig was preceded in death by his maternal and paternal grandparents.

I Fall To Pieces --


I Fall To Pieces, Patsy Cline

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Summer of ...

... I was never to see her again ... nor was I ever to learn what became of her ... we were different ... life is made up of small comings and goings ...

Summer of '42

An Obituary

Link here.

In case the link breaks:
Craig Oksol, 55, a lifelong Williston resident and local business owner, died on Thursday evening, Aug. 4, 2011, at the St. Mary’s Hospital in Rochester, Minn.

Funeral services will be announced. The Fulkerson Funeral Home, Williston, is caring for the family.

Friends may share condolences and memories with the family online at www.fulkersons.com
A full obituary will follow.

Craig is survived by his wife, Kathryn, and daughter, Victoria; his brother, Bruce; his sisters, Yvonne, Karla, Kathy, and Jan; and by his parents, Carl and Ruth Oksol. Craig would have celebrated his 56th birthday in September.

If you go to this site, scroll to the bottom, you will see a photo of the view outside his front door, with his niece, Kiri, on his horse, Buck. The photo was taken many years ago, perhaps 20 years ago. Craig, among so much else, was also a great horseman.